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female
age
36-40,
*oda
writes:Hey, I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 30 years old. His first interest is "sex" and nothing but sex, 15 years having sex as he wishes, I knew him at work I didn't have any relationships before him, he's the first man I know in my life. I kept myself from loving him, especially men like him, but he know how to make me love him. He told me he wanted to change, he needs my help and he regrets what he did - he wanted to get married but after I lied about something fast he said he lost trust in me and he doesn't want to get married. Our relation stopped for a month, I was so tired for leaving someone I thought he loved me but love for him means nothing - sort of I begged him to come back I felt he forgot me I convinced myself it was my fault to lie to him though he could've forgiven me for such small mistake, anyway after a whole day talking to him to come back to me he accepted to get together again, in this period he didn't answer all my phones when i asked him about that he said nothing-he left me twice after that once cause he felt depressed for standing in my way as i deserve to get married i believed that, the second time he stayed away from me for 2 weeks after that he wanted to break up for the same reason but this time i didn't believe him i think he went to sleep with someone and cheat on me cause he asked me for sex and i said no because i have principles and i don't want to lose our love- he made me love things i didn't think i would love'm- after a while i felt he misses me- starting from here i really felt that he starts to feel something for me - he asked to see me and come back together so i said yes though i know that he might've cheated on me- i'm having so many problems with mom and dad- my dad started to know our relation he's interfering my life - my dad wasn't a good dad to me but his thought of doing something behind his back espically having a relation with a man makes him go crazyone important thing i forgot to tell is that i work with my dad at the same place and my dad and the one i love is a friend of a person,also at work, my dad hates soooooooooo much- my mom keeps warning me that he is playing me to take revenge for his friend i can't believe maybe i don't want to believe thatlast time we came back together he told me that he and his friends were hanging out with some girls and then they were going to have sex but he could not because of me my mom keeps telling me situations dad told her my boyfriend did with him
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Save urself the heartbreak and end ur relationship. Listen to your parents, they care about u and dont want u to get hurt.
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