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writes: Hiya, i recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend of four months (he's 19, im 18). I dont regret starting a sexual relationship with him, but the thing is i'm a bit unsure as to what i'm actually supposed to do during sex. It sounds stupid but he's had a number of sexual partners so he pretty much took control and made me feel really comfortable because he knows what he's doing. I can't expect him to do all the work though and i want to give back some of what he's giving to me, but i'm not exactly sure how to do that. I don't want to do things wrong and make a mess of things. Any advice?
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (29 April 2006):
 just go with flow do what you enjoy, do postions you believe is possible.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (29 April 2006):
 Get the book 'Everything your mother never told you about SEX'. It will answer all your questions. It is written by a couple doctors that have heard and seen it all, in a matter of fact style. It is exactly what the title says.
It is even better to read certain parts with your BF and he can give insight if he likes certain ideas suggested in the book.
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reader, chachacha +, writes (29 April 2006):
Firstly, you can do anything you want to and if it feels good to both of you, carry on, and if not, then say "oh well" and don't do that again.
Secondly, if you are having sex with your bf, you should be able to communicate with him - so ask him! say "does this feel good?".
And remember that sex is not about a performance and you can't really do things wrong or make a mess of things - just experiment, relax, communicate and have fun.
good luck
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