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writes:My lady roomate/lover whom I really love, has gotten 2nd thoughts about her impending divorce from her abusive, lying husband. We have just (mutually,though she didn't want to) cut off contact from her for 2 or 3 weeks to let her remember why she called me in the 1st place. Her husband and her do not have children together and he does not like her kids. Her family loves me,she says she does ,but is just mixed up. Any ideas on how to get her to come to her own decision on what to do? I want her happy,with or without me. She has shown me that I can love again, but I am not going to be her 2nd option.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 Hi,I am afraid she has to take time to sort out her divorce from her husband before she can have the emotional balance to start anything pure and clear with you. Her feelings are tied now. That is why alot of people take time after a divorce or relationships before getting involved again.There is nothing you can really do for now but be her friend and allow her sort this for herself.Kelly.
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