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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm really inexperienced with guys compared to most girls my age I think... when it comes to boys i get really shy and nervous and embarrassed and because i'm so inexperienced i can never read the signs! Anyway now there's this guy that i really like and we were in a situation he other day where i know now that he wanted to kiss me.. at the time though i was nervous and shy and just didn't realise that i was giving off the wrong signals! now i'm worried that he'll have got the wrong idea and think that i don't actually like him and that he won't want to try it again.. how can i get over my shyness/nervousness and more importantly, how can i give him the confidence to try again!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): Hey there babe I'm 14. No your not alone there are tons of girls who are really inexperianced with guys I was one of them. Well you can't really do nothing to give him the confidence back because then when your giving him the wrong signals again he probably wouldn't know what to do anymore. Hey I am one of the shyest people ever so I know how you feel. Well I would talk to him and tell him your sorry and that you really got nervous and if he asks why and you trust him then tell him why he won't laugh if he really likes you:] My first kiss was horrible well it started off slowly heads coming towards eachother and it was sweet at first and then my heart made me want to pass out but instaed I got a little agressive and went for it and then I bumped teeth with him and it was embarassing but all well it happens:] Trust me you will laugh about yours to once you get it done and over with so take your time be comfortable around him and when you both feel something at the moment then go for it girl. But if he doesn't want to try again then obviously he doesn't really love you. So then move on find someone cutier and better then he is and go for it:] Good luck hope everything turns out:]
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reader, AILANFANF +, writes (19 November 2010):
As a bloke ive gotta agree with YouWish, we do prefer girls to make the first move, certainly I and most of my mates do at least, it doesnt make u look slutty, its sweet and cute if he knows u like him, especially if he likes yoiu as well
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Here's the thing. It's not a matter of overcoming your shyness and giving HIM the confidence to kiss you again. It's a matter of whether or not you want to kiss HIM!
Do you like him? Do you want to kiss him? Do you want to give off the right signals? Want a complete and utter thrill?
YOU need the confidence to walk up to him and lay one on him. Don't compare yourself to other girls. YOU make the situation and kiss him. Don't wait for him to make the move, and if he's into you like you say he is, once you kiss him, he'll be flat out putty in your hands. :)
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