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How can I get my girlfriend's parents to trust me when they think I'm only dating her for sex?

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Question - (15 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my girlfriends parents think that im with her just to try and have sex with her, but sex doesnt matter to me in a relationship since we are happy as it is

is there any way i can prove to them that im not like other guys and that i truely love and respect their daughter and earn their trust because i rarely get to see her anymore and id like them to trust me so i can

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A male reader, Nick Man United States +, writes (16 August 2008):

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A female reader, Artistry United States +, writes (15 August 2008):

Artistry agony auntHi there, Why don't you sit down and compose a medium length letter to her parents. Do a few drafts first, so you have the right tone and say what you mean to say. Tell them why you like about their daughter, what attributes you like about her, what the two of you have in common. That you respect her and would not want to do anything to hurt her, don't mention the word sex, and that she is a very good friend, and you appreciate her company. Don't expect miracles, because they have a certain frame of mind towards their daughter, which has nothing to do with you, but everything to do with trying to protect their daughter, from whatever they think is going to befall her. Lighten up and find other venues, to be involved in, so that you don't concentrate so much on this one particular girl, not saying to see other girls, but just relax a bit. See what happens with the letter, hopefully they will be impressed, watch your spelling and grammar. Mail the letter to them and wait for the outcome. Don't say anything in the letter that is not true, they will probably show it to their daughter. Good luck, please let us know how it turns out if you do write the letter. Take care.

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