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How can I get my girlfriend's parents to trust me when they think I'm only dating her for sex?

Q.   my girlfriends parents think that im with her just to try and have sex with her, but sex doesnt matter to me in a relationship since we are happy as it is is there any way i can prove to them that im not like other guys and that i truely love and ...

A.   16 August 2008: I found a great website to help answer ALOT of questions. Try out this video link: http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-win-over-your-girlfriends-dad ... (read in full...)

I have fallen for a girl who is "out of my league" and I think she's having a secret relationship with another girl...

Q.   I have fallen for a girl who is way out of my league and i think she's having a secret relationship with a girl. This girl lives across the road from me, we are the same age but we've never spoken, although her parents and mine talk to eachothe...

A.   16 August 2008: she probably might wonder if youve been spying on her if you ask her directly after her parents leave... wait an hour or so so that you dont seem suspicious... (read in full...)

He's ALWAYS been a major flirt with all the girls.Should I cope or leave?

Q.   I need some help. Im 19 years old and I have started dating this guy who I went to school with. The thing is though hes ALWAYS been a major flirt with all the girls. Hes overly friendly, overly confident and overly flirty to most girls. But wh...

A.   15 August 2008: I honestly think that if you are going to get a steady date, you need one that isnt so flirteous. Find a trusting man who wont turn his back on you to flirt. Find a man who loves you, becuase he obviously doesnt think you are the one if he is overly ... (read in full...)

How can I get my husband to stop ignoring me?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for a year and 5 months. We are very young and have a 9 month old daughter. We were very much in love when we got married, but it has gone downhill quite a bit since then .I understand that it could be stress, work ...

A.   15 August 2008: ???Alot of men are very indifferent about things--and your husband seems to be one of them. Indifferent men usually answer with "whatever you want, honey" "I dont know" "if you want" and so forth... ...But once you stumble upon something they l... (read in full...)

Guys! Does the head of your penis feel uncomfortable when touched?

Q.   Question for the guys: I know that the head of a penis is very sensitive. But, when touched, rubbed, licked, or otherwise, does anybody else feel an uncomfortable sensation? Last night when my partner performed oral sex on me, the "head" area felt...

A.   15 August 2008: I have had this sensation before as well if i touch there, but im not exactly sure of this "sensation" you speak of. How does it feel? Does it hurt/feel uncomfortable only when... what texture does it feel? if you were to touch there, when are when ... (read in full...)

He wants to meet up for sex, and I do too, but how can I be sure he's not a psycho?

Q.   I think I already know the answer to this one, because of what my friends have said - but I need a second opinion. I recently met a guy online through our blogs and we've been emailing quite frequently. He's suggesting that we meet up for sex,...

A.   11 August 2008: DONT DO IT! if he asks it means thats what he wants. dont do it. HE JUST WANTS PERVERTED SEX!... (read in full...)

I felt sick, nervous, angry and upset because he texted his ex in my presence!...

Q.   Hi there, I've been in several relationships, of which I have been cheated on and pretty much all of them were long, drawn out break ups that included another girl and now I get really worried about little things that my current boyfriend does. I...

A.   11 August 2008: heyy thats no reason to be upset. When you stop looking, the one you love will come... and he will not cheat on you becuase he loves you. Becuase he is trustworthy, the perfect man for you. Dont try to say- "oh hes good enough. he will do"... (read in full...)

Shy, Inexperienced Guy Needs Answers

Q.   I'm a 21 year old guy, in school, and I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been on date. I'm still a complete virgin, never even had a first kiss yet. I'm normal and intelligent. The thing is I am just really shy and nervous, especially ...

A.   11 August 2008: its the same with men-I would like to be with a women who is a virgin becuase she would seem more trustworthy and wise, becuase if she wasnt, she got into something she shouldnt have and that gives a huge impression that you should not want. ... (read in full...)

I'm having a problem with unscrewing a ball on my eyebrow bar, please help !

Q.   I got my eyebrow pierced about 4 days ago. It isnt a problem or anything that i am asking but how do i get to take it out so that i can clean the bar? :P I had tried to twist the balls on the top and bottom but they are to tight. any sugg...

A.   11 August 2008: Ask your piercing place... (read in full...)

I can't stop thinking about a girl who is half my age.

Q.   Hi. I am in my early fifties and i am lusting after a girl who is half my age. I am married man, so i feel very guilty about fancying this girl, but i find i cannot stop thinking about her. I am not in the habit of fancying girls of her age and i ...

A.   11 August 2008: Definitely--go with who you are married, She probably already has a boyfriend now. Be smart, dont loose it all, and stay with the one you swore to be with for life, and tell yourself why you love the one you love. and tell her that you love her. ... (read in full...)

Love her and she will love you in return.

Q.   Girls love to be "loved." This is the reason they try to make themselves attratrive to men---sexy clothes, careful makeup and hairdoes, cleavage, etc. If you want to please a girl so that she will do anything to please you, make her feel loved ...

A.   11 August 2008: I agree fully with both comments. Also, always be a confident man, and love yourself before you attempt to do anything, because loving yourself is really the key to open the door for others to love you as well. A man who does not love himself will ... (read in full...)

He ejaculated pretty quickly... is that a bad thing?

Q.   I've been with my current boyfriend for a number of months and we are very much in love with eachother. Recently, we have started "doing stuff" and I gave him a wank. He came after a very short period of time and commented on how fast it was. I r...

A.   11 August 2008: No no no, it is not at all relevent to how good you did it, or how young you are, and whatnot... It is that he is not using his pc muscles to prolong ejaculation!!! What are "pc muscles?" When a man stops peing midway on purpose, he is u... (read in full...)

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