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How can I get his attention and show him I like him?

Q.   I have an french exchange student in my school. I've only spoken to him once or twice but i really, really, really like him. the problem is I dont think hes interest, and why would he? we've only spoken once or twice. I'm really shy of him but i'm ...

A.   17 August 2010: Hey the first thing i noticed was he's on exchange from france? what happens when he go's back? considering you live austrailia is a long distance relationship what you realy want if it is go for it, but then again deep down you may just want a ... (read in full...)

Would it still be okay for us to date but NOT have sex?

Q.   Okay im a guy that is 19 years old and i know a girl that is 15 that really likes me. Im really starting to like her back but don't know about our age difference. The age of concent here is 17 but we wouldn't have a sexual relationship. We both ...

A.   16 August 2010: There is no law for dating a minor only for having sex with one. If you like he and she likes you then go for it.... (read in full...)

He's not texting as much since we've met... help me with my insecurities.

Q.   i have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we have just spent our first week together and everything went brilliantly. i was afraid we would argue and so was he but after we talked and agreed that it went ...

A.   16 August 2010: Woah girl calm down even in the best of the best relationships you need to have space and that means sorry to say but not having him on such a short leashe. The time you have together and apart ENJOY meaning take a breath and have fun.... (read in full...)

Feelings for my ex are ruining my life. Why can't I move on?

Q.   I went out with this boy, (let's call him Ben) who was in my year, last March. We were perfect for each other- into all the same stuff, liked each other and we got along so well. I've never found any boy as easy to talk to. We went out for about 6 ...

A.   16 August 2010: Somtimes you have to lose something or someone to truly know how much it or they meant to you... In saying that of course your not going to like the idea of someone you once loved being with another person but IF he can move on so can you, of cour... (read in full...)

Shouldn't morning sickness have finished by now?

Q.   Im just going to get straight to the point. 5 months ago i had unprotected sex and you guessed it got pregnant, i know it was stupid but me and the guy were and still are in love i dont regret my decision just wish i could of changed the timing. ...

A.   16 August 2010: I just wanted to thank everyone for all there helpful answers and how quickly i got them was so surprising. And honeypie i am currently receiving prenatal care but thanx for the concern. I'll post an update as soon as i can :).... (read in full...)

I've said I love you, but he won't say it back!

Q.   Dear cupid, Me and my boyfriend have been going out since June 11th I love him very very much but he has never said to me that he loves me!! Everyone says we are cute together even before we started going out, he is great we have never had an argue...

A.   15 August 2010: Some guys are just afraid to admit how they feel in fear of getting hurt even if they know the other person shares the same feelings (i know its stupid and completely annoying 'for some'but just the way it is). Maybe its time you start putting ... (read in full...)

She wants to do her own thing but still have a relationship with me

Q.   So I've dated this girl for seven months and we broke up about two or three months ago. At first things were supposed to be a break, but i found out she's making out with a large number of guys. That caused me to get angry and basically explode on ...

A.   14 August 2010: Hey i maybe a new member. But from a chick's point of a view, im going to be completely honest and tell you shes using you because she knows that your always going to be there like a doormat... i know its harsh but true. Sometimes even thou a ... (read in full...)

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