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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi everybody,I am a student and doing my master. I am staying an apartment for rent which is near to my university. my neighbor is 10 years older than me who is divorce with 2 kids. Most of the time she like to cook and invite me to dinner. one day we after dinner she asked me sleep with her and she say that she is feeling lonely. to be honest she is beautiful but more older than me. My question is, should i have to sleep with her or have to end of our friendship. I am single and if anything happen it will be shame to me. Most of time when i feel horny i like to go to disco but sometimes i am thinking that beside me have very near and free ....so plz give me an advise. She ever asked me that are u not am i not gay. I have said no. But i feel little hurt because of her question. what can i do?
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 There's that old expression, "Don't s**t where you eat" and I believe that it applies to this situation. This woman is your neighbor which means that if you do engage in sex and don't want to continue seeing her, she's still going to be living close to her. Can you imagine what it would be like if you started dating someone and this woman was there to watch you with your girlfriend every day? The thing she said about being gay: that's just a way for her to push you into sex. She KNOWS you're not gay, she was just hoping that you would get offended and "prove" that you are not. Decline her dinner invitations firmly but politely, she'll take the hint. You're a young man, finish your degree and when you're ready, find a nice girl who won't play these silly games. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): Do not sleep with her and do not have dinner with her anymore...that will encourage her to look for a guy that likes her and she will no longer be lonely.
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