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*aTuSabes
writes:I have drop dead gorgeous friends. Everytime I go out, they always get all the attention. The only type of attention I get is the buddy buddy status. No one looks at me like I could be a potential girlfriend or something, unless they get to know me and see how I am. But I never get to that level, because I am rarely given the chance. How can I get this to change? Reply to this Question
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reader, YaTuSabes +, writes (7 December 2009):
YaTuSabes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokk. i appreciate the responses. thanks.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 December 2009):
I bet you're not nearly as bad as you think you are. The thing about men is we can sense underconfident women and it can scare us a bit. If you think you're not as good, then those guys will see that and be scared. You need to be more confident about yourself, and happier with yourself. There is a guy out there for you. If there's someone you like, talk to him. Even if it just leads to another friend, you will know how to talk to guys, and you'll understand them a bit better. Don't worry, there will be a guy out there. But the more you worry, the more all those men will see it and get scared. So be yourself, be happy that you are who you are, and you'll meet a great guy.
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