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Help!!! I'm in love with my sister in law!!!

Q.   I'm in love with my sister in law. My wife's sister. I think about her all the time. I'm just concerned about taking it too far. I am married with a boy and a girl. She is married with 3 girls. We are both in our late 30's but she is a couple of ...

A.   11 December 2009: honestly, why do you need to know how she feels? it would only complicate things because you will then want to know how you would progress. And progression, in this case, would only lead to disaster. Do not ruin what you have. And if you dont love ... (read in full...)

I sent my ex a sexy pic to taunt him with what he couldnt have, and now my BF is upset

Q.   me and my ex husband never got got just a few weeks ago he started texting me at first nothing bad then he came to my work n then started text n me how hot i looked and asking if i would have a affair with him so i sent him a sexy pic and said never ...

A.   9 December 2009: for once, sending a sexy picture period is dumb. two, sending a sexy picture and saying no is even more dumb. three, why would you even taunt your ex, if you only care about your bf? so basically, my only advice is never do that again. if he tak... (read in full...)

Is this cougar after my man?

Q.   im in my twenties and have been with my partner for 4 years.he is in his thirties.iv always bee abit jeleous but am getting better.any way theres a woman he woks wiv that realy likes him.shes 50 she texts most days and trys to ring though he doesnt ...

A.   9 December 2009: trust your man. and dont harm yourself over it. if he is cheating the truth will come out. do your part and stick by him unless that actually happens. people say stuf all the time, they are called :haters. ignore them and trust him. what is a ... (read in full...)

I am again pregnant with my nephew's child and don't know if I can keep this a secret this time!

Q.   My shameful secret had eaten away at me for years. But I always knew the truth had to come out eventually. Everyone knows secrets have a horrible way of coming back to haunt you. Usually, when you least expect it. Certainly, the sordid secret in my ...

A.   7 December 2009: First of all, how old was he int he first place and how old were you? second, you should be honest, but if you are you do realize, you and him will probably not even end up together in the end and your life will be just as miserable, if not worse. ... (read in full...)

We've been talking for a while and stuff and we're going to have sex. Only I'm scared.

Q.   Okay I met this really great guy we've been talking for a while now and stuff and he wants to have sex. I do too but I'm really scared of how much it is going to hurt. So could u all help me understand how much it is going to hurt it would be great. ...

A.   7 December 2009: if youre scared, DO NOT HAVE SEX. there is no reason to. and youre young. you have time to be sure. no need to rush. and i dont know what youre definition of a while is, but it seems so rushed to me. you might not even like him within the next ... (read in full...)

His mother introduces me as his 'acquaintance' (after 2 year together!) and speaks Albanian around me! Should I end it?

Q.   I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 2 years and last thanksgiving (11/26/09) my boyfriend's mom introduced me to her friends (who btw already knew me from previous meetings) as Ervin's aquaintence from school. 1) I'm his girlfriend, ...

A.   7 December 2009: Youre young, you can find a better, less stressful relationship. i mean if you were head over heels, id said deal, but if you keep trying to break up with him, then it isnt worth it. good luck.... (read in full...)

Is it too soon to tell him I love him? How do I do it?

Q.   I have a few questions about my situation with my bf and love. Should I tell my bf I love him for the first time and if so, how do I go about doing it? How do I know if he truly does love me? Why hasnt he said he loves me yet? My bf who is 25...

A.   7 December 2009: talk about it hypothetically, but if your relationship with him is as good as you think, whether he is sure of his feelings or isnt ready to tell you, it wont send him away. When my bf told me that he loved me, i didnt say it in return. He accepted ... (read in full...)

How can I get attention off of my friends and on to me?

Q.   I have drop dead gorgeous friends. Everytime I go out, they always get all the attention. The only type of attention I get is the buddy buddy status. No one looks at me like I could be a potential girlfriend or something, unless they get to know me ...

A.   7 December 2009: okk. i appreciate the responses. thanks.... (read in full...)

I want to stop feeling so depressed all the time - how can I change that and make myself more likable?

Q.   I'm 15 years old and am in year 11 at school and I feel depressed all the time. I have 2 close friends but I'm not very good at making friends and they both have other friends that they can hang around with. I sometimes hang around with one group of ...

A.   6 December 2009: This is sad to hear. High School should be the best time of the underage life. There are two very important things you need to know. One, no one will approach you, unless out of pity, if you are depressed. Even if you are trying to hide it, it w... (read in full...)

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