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writes:How can I get a boyfriend? I flirt with guys who I like and they flirt back, I know that a lot of guys like me so how do I get one of them to be my boyfriend? I don't know why no guy has asked me out yet.I talk to lots of guys and I like 2 guys and well I talk to one of them almost everyday, but I don't really like him that much, I do like him a little bit.The other guy who I like I talk to once and Awhile but I like him a lot more then I like the other guy. Only thing I haven't gotten a chance to talk to him that much cause he doesn't walk home very often. So any advice would be great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): i dont know how your confidence levels rate but i would suggest maybe actions rather than words? ;) i mean if you feel confident enough to, take the flirting a step further, maybe touch his leg and look proper deep into his eyes (not too deep) if he already knows how you feel about him these actions are pretty effective in showing him you want something more, hopefully he'll get the hint and he wont feel the fear of rejection as much-because of course no matter what gender you are it's the same game he's just as terrified as you are of rejection, think about it you say he likes you but he hasnt made a move on you has he-because what's going on in his mind is exactly the same as what's going on in yours :) also it's quite a bold step so it will help your confidence levels and make you more confident with dating in the long run. im in the exact same situation and im realising if you want this to happen you have to take that extra step over the line, i know it'll go well ;) xx
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reader, Samhamss +, writes (5 June 2008):
I agree with purple1234, I was the same way, I was one of the guys who waited for the girl. These might be those types. go for it rejection hurts, but it's not all that bad. I agree that it is much better than never knowingb.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (5 June 2008):
 It doesn't always have to be the guy who makes the first move - ask one of them out, go see a movie together, go get a coffee or something. It might be nerve-wracking, but keep in mind that it's just the same for them.
No ones likes to make themselves vulnerable to rejection, but if you never try, you'll never know.
Either way, don't be in any hurry to get a boyfriend. You have YEARS and YEARS to do the dating thing - lads will come and go. There's no rush.
Good luck to you. =)
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reader, iGirly +, writes (5 June 2008):
 Maybe you should hint to either one of the guys that you want a boyfriend.
Occasionally throw it in during conversation, and hope they take the hint!
Let me know how it works out!
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