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I am in a committed relationship but in love with a man who lives far away.

Q.   I met a man about 4 years ago and we spent about two weeks together. I absolutely fell in love with him, and he claims he felt the same way about me. But he lives on the other side of the country. He soon had to return home, and I found myself able ...

A.   26 May 2011: I think the best thing would be to try and forget it again. You probably have such strong feelings because what you had with this first guy is an unfinished story, making it all the more exciting. If you talk to your boyfriend about it you run the ... (read in full...)

Should I be worried that his female friend will eventually replace me?

Q.   I have been in a relationship for about a year now. I love my boyfriend very much and he's told me the same. But sometimes I get the feeling he doesn't like what we have. He has a friend he always sees and they've known each other for a long time. ...

A.   26 May 2011: Older boys can often spell trouble I'm afraid, and their female friends mean that you have a breeding ground for your paranoia. I think before you jump to conclusions you should talk to him about it and ask him to be honest with you. Ask him why he ... (read in full...)

I think the girl I like is over me. How can I get over her?

Q.   well im starting to to think the girl i like is over me. we use to have a thing but now things have changed and she barely talks to me anymore. i really like her but idk how to get over her. any suggestions please? i mean i wanted to ...

A.   26 May 2011: If you think she is no longer interested then it is probably best not to ask her out now. To get over it, try and spend more time with your friends having fun, take your mind off her. If you think about other things eventually there will come a day ... (read in full...)

What inside of me makes me wanna be so attached?

Q.   I'm 19 and my girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half and things were going great. There was a time before during the relationship where i felt i needed her and when i didnt see her for a day i would feel awful and not want to ...

A.   26 May 2011: It sounds like you are having a difficult time. It is hard when you like someone so much to be apart from them, I should know, I am in a LDR currently. But, sometimes relationships run their course, and maybe it would be better for you both to take ... (read in full...)

Why do so many people try to push you to get out and look for girls just to hook up with and have meaningless sex?

Q.   My friends are the type who are confident with girls who can chat to them no problem and don't mind meeting up with them with only one goal in mind. The problem is, that's not me at all....I struggle so much with girls as I'm not super confident,...

A.   26 May 2011: I think the issue here is that your friends are very much the typical 'lad' type of boy/man. You seem to have a more mature and frankly, much nicer view about how sex should be. If you want the sex that you have to be meaningful and with someone you ... (read in full...)

How can I get him to notice me without creeping him out or being to pushy?

Q.   Okay... So there is this guy i like... Im a freshmen and hes a sophomore and i like him a lot. A ton of my friends are cool with him but he doesnt even know i exist. He doesnt even look at me. So my question is: how do i get him to notice me with ...

A.   26 May 2011: I'm not too sure about the names for different school years in america but I am guessing this guy is 14 or 15? And you are a year younger? I think the way to start something up is first to talk to the guy. You may not even like him once you get to ... (read in full...)

Does he want to be with me just to have sex because I'm a virgin?

Q.   My boy frd dated me for 2month,nd left without any explaination.after 7month he come back for me.i accept him back.on my birthday he didn't get me any bday present.and yet am madly in love with him.he ask me that am i still a virgin,i told him ...

A.   26 May 2011: I would stay away from this guy, you definitely do not want to lose your virginity to someone who treats you like that. So many people, including myself, have lost their virginity to guys who really don't care, and it will not be a nice experience ... (read in full...)

I'm not happy single but I don't trust women!

Q.   This isn't really relationship advise i'm seeking, more advice in general. and has spurred from relationships. I was in a relationship for two and a half years. i was absolutely obsessed with her. but now i realise she wasn't good for me, she undo...

A.   26 May 2011: Its sounds like you have had a really REALLY hard time, and I'm sorry. But not all women are like that, I promise! It is hard in a relationship when you are giving your all and they just take without giving much, or anything back, I know. You are ... (read in full...)

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