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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I can't seem to start a new relationship with a girl. Im 22 and up to this point i have always let girls ask me out. Of course this is rare for girls to ask a guy out... so i always end up getting the wrong girl for me. I have been going out to bars with the boys but nothing ever comes of it. I'm pretty shy when im sober but once the conversation starts my charm overcomes my shyness. So my question is how and where can i go about finding a girlfriend. I am in my last year of college and would like to find something before i graduate. im not picky anymore, just want someone who enjoys being with me.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (25 July 2009):
Well first, I'd give up in the bars...I'd try to get into some small social group activities, some kind of groups where you can be with people that are interested in stuff you're interested in. At my Uni, we had a series of "fun" evening "classes" (no grades!) that were simply meant to allow folks to meet other folks (it was/is a HUGE Uni - 54,000 students). There was everything from photogrpahy to bar tending.Other ideas, volunter work, library study groups, coffee shops. I met my GF (now wife) on a blind date, which at 16 I'd SWORN off of for life! SO, I'd try networking through freinds... What I've found is when your hunting you come up empty, when your relaxed and confident you find them...
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