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anonymous
writes:i was best friends with a girl until she betrayed my trust, backstabbed me and my friends and turned into a person i dont even know, and a person who no one likes at this stage. she likes flirting with guys who are taken, like she enjoys the fact that she could win him over etc and she has been doing this to my friend's boyfriend. a few months ago, she tried going after my boyfriend and i called her off for it. even though we werent close, we were still friends and the fact that she tried to seduce my boyfriend one night once his party was over and when i had just left completely sent me over the edge. he asked her to get out of his room and leave, but being the unshameful person she is, she continued to pester him until he left his room and hung out with some other ppl until she left.i think its been 2+ months since then and shes started back up again. she tries to talk to him whenever hes alone,and though its just in a 'friends' way and he simply responds politely, i cant stand it. when my boyfriend tells me about it i get angry all over again. what am i supposed to do?? i feel that its not fair for me to ask him to completely not respond to her when shes always the one making conversation first
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): Limit your bf exposure to all your female friends, especially the ones without bfs. If you want to keep him, stop discussing how great he is in bed etc.. with your gfs.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 I THINK IF your friend doesnt respect u and goes after your man every opportunity then she simply isnt a friend.
let go of your so called friendship and stop talking to her.
her behaviour of trying to seduce your bf is out of order. you cannot trust her and a true good friend would never try and stab u in the back.
good luck
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