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I want to trust him but when he doesn't answer my calls I have doubts!

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Question - (25 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2009)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi

I am Sana

I am muslim and he is hindu,It has been a 15 months of our relationship we love each other very much

we are toghter from apr 2008 with a unconditional love and trust but In month of november his mother got hospitalised and his family has knew about our relationship and they were againsted and pressurise him to leave me he said to me, i love u but can not marry you that was the time i cried and i lost trust from him but he said we will not talk to each other I prayed to god and Say "saccha payar tha to zaroor vapis aayega "in month of Dec i backed to delhi and did job he was very happy cs i came then we start talking and meeting each other after we close all misunderstanding and accept that was the bad time passed ,he used "sindoor in my maang"so that i use to trust him again in a same way i used to, I can say he trusts me a lot More than i trust myself but but somtimes i feel i do not trust him ex-if he do not pick my phone and being a manager and family pressure hum mil nahi patye i use to shout him(because of this he hurts a lot) ..and i feel negative thoughts etc mostly only negative thoughts comes in my mind ..

want to remove these negative thoughts and live happy with My love Ever

Please help me guide me??????Plssssssssss

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2009):

Starlights agony auntYou know that your bf's family doesnt want you both to be together

And you know this relationship can never go further becoz of both your religions and the country you are in.

Your bf chose his family the first time over you and he will keep choosing them over you.

How can you trust him?

This is not love from him.

This is control.

Real love is when you sacrifice everything to be with the person you love, then it is love.

Have you spoken to him about how you are feeling? Can you both see a future together?

Good luck

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