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How can I encourage him to talk to me more?

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Question - (11 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2011)
A female Singapore age 26-29, *ampurplesea writes:

I'm not a popular girl, but usually my friends think I'm cute, a good listener and a hard worker.

anyway, I'm an ordinary teenager.

I'm not an English native speaker, so I'm studying in an English school for foreigners in an english speaking country.

so, recently, there is a guy who just came to my class and we are form different countries. who I'm crushing on.

he is a cute guy, who I see everyday in class, for A WEEK, but have NEVER talked before.

I could see that his English is not very good plus he is quiet. that's why I don't know anything about him except his name.

he always chooses to sit behind me and he always smiles at me (whenever I turn back)

70% I'm sure he has a girlfriend because I always caught him texting, calling in beaktime. (I'm not quite sure, anyway)

so people! help me:

how can I talk to him naturally?

how can I encourage him to talk more to me?

how to flirt with him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011):

First things first, do try and talk to him and find out where he is from, what he likes,hobbies, interests just casual questions, nothing heavy- you dont want to scare him off. If you see him on his own, go sit with him talk to him. small things like that should make him realise you are a friend.

You said you are 70% sure he has a girlfriend. Well, a way to know if he does, is just to ask him to the cinema with you and a couple of friends during the weekend becasue this will be the most obvious time he would be with his girlfriend, if he declines- he probably has one, if he says yes then he may still have one, but not shared it with you- in this case be on guard, becasue you do not want ot be the one who broke them up or if he says yes, he could be single.

Hope this works out for you. Good Luck

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