A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's this girl who lives in Durban, appearantly she is kinda like my long distance girlfriend, she lives a far from where I am of which I leave in Johannesburg, she going to come in couple of days to company her friend to visit her boyfriend of which he is my friend here in Johannesburg. I called her yesterday and she confirmed it and she said I can come to meet with her when my friend is gonna meet her chick because she will be there, the problem is she will be only coming to johannesburg to walk her friend to visit her man,but she says she has to return as soon as her friend leaves with her man, so that means I am not going to be spending much time as I want with her and she knows that. and she says she would like to spend alot of time with me too, but because at her home she was told to return as soon as possible. I won't even get a chance get laid, let alone spending quality time with her in our own capacity because we will be in public, and I needed to be with her for atleast all day because I only have started knowing and been with her couple of times while we were in Durban at her hometown on holiday season. I don't know how can I convince her to stay a bit longer so I can spend quality time with her and hopefully go all the way. please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2012): You "wanna get laid" ... does this girl know you aren't interested in her, but only in using her for sex?
Grow up and try thinking with your brain instead of your penis (that's the grown-up word for dick).
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2012): Oh OP you are from my part of the world: I'm astounded by your selfish, warped and immautre attitude.
Please grow up! You want to get laid?? Why do u feel that u need to manipulate this girl into having sex with you? Coersion and manipulation will land your
a$$ in jail my buddy. I assume this girl is coming over for the extended public holiday? Easter? To see her bf? But you want to pretend to be her friend hoping in a moment of weakness u can take advantage of her?
Oh BTW English should be your first language: how about writing correctly!!!!
(To the Aunts, sorry: just had to put the local lad in his place. I know the kind he is, see them around all the time: know their thought process and their M O )
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (30 March 2012):
 Stop thinking with your dick.
When you meet her ask her out for a dinner, get to know her and hold off on the "i wanna get laid" whining. It makes you sounds like a total tool.
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