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writes:hi guys, i've know this guy for a while now, we've been boyfriends a few times but we keep breaking up, the first time it was because we was goin to go to college far away, the second time he told me it was because he has feelings for me, i dint understand why that was a reason for breaking up but then i realized he may just be afraid of gettin hurt, the last great relationship he had ended with him being cheated on, i've told him i'd never hurt him, i love him, i cry myself to sleep almost every night over not being with him and find myself not seeing him for several weeks because being around him bring up painful memories, how can i convince him that i'm not goin to hurt him, i know he likes me and he knows i love him, how can i make him see that i'll never love anyone the way i love him??any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks.plz help melboyxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (1 August 2008):
 Hi Sweetheart
You could write a letter telling him of your feelings and also that you understand that he may be fearfull of another relationship and put everything in this letter about how you feel and that no two people are the same..Ive had some very bad experiences hunny and Im in a good relationship but occationally I run for the hills because of my past...Its so important that you can understand this and show him that you really do to give him security and caring slowly at first as it may be to much to start with and his feelings just go into panic mode..If you care this much he just needs to know you are willing to go that extra mile if you get me love to pop his mind at rest..It may take awhile but patience is the answer I hope this works out for you love and he realises that you really do care and he takes this chance to be happy in life goodluck love WITH HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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