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How can I change her mind about going to this party?

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Question - (26 August 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2009)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey i have a weird situation this girl i like and she knows i like her invited me to her friends b'day party only thing is it's a sex fest party they only want one guy there and theres like 4 of her friends. Im not really keen on the idea of having sex with her friends like they want me to but i know that if i say no they will get someone else who only wants sex (which considering the nature of it is ok but i really like her) and i need to know how can i try and change her mind about this? and if not should i do it anyway?

thanks in advance for your help

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009):

woops meant to say shes not normally like this sry...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009):

Hey @ Ifyoudontmind shes normally like this had alot more detail but my first question was rejected it would be her and 1 of her friends first time which is why im not keen on it but id prefer her first time to be with someone who cares for her and not just her body like it will be if im not there.

@ Uncle phil i think i just happened to stumble in at the wrong/right time depends how u look at it.

@ ditzydaisy she isnt my girlfriend i just like her. I agree bout it being a sluty idea but she wont listen the whole reason they doing it is cos they wanna show her friend hos bday it is a good time.

@ eyeswideopen do you is it awkward after woulds if the ppl there are ppl u see most days?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 August 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntI just LOVE theme parties! So festive!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (26 August 2009):

Honeypie agony auntWhat the heck happened to cake and beer on birthdays?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009):

Not recommended. It's a very stiff man indeed that can manage to service 5 women in one evening. Having failed to do so you'll be embarassed that you didn't live up to their expectations. However, with the help of a little blue pill you might manage three of them.

I've never heard of a sex fest party before. How does one go about getting an invitation?

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A male reader, Ifyoudontmind United States +, writes (26 August 2009):

Thats a complex situation,

The likelyhood of this omni sexual encounter is pretty low honestly. Four teenage girls wanting to all battle over one guy...

It sounds like the plot to a poorly executed stag film.

"Horny Teen Slumber Party 7" that kind of thing, how well do you know this girl, is she the kind of girl that using sex as a meaningless communicative tool? if so, she isnt even worth your time. Any girl who exploits her body as a means to receive attention isnt worth it.

Trust me

-iydm

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009):

Hey man, theres guys all over the world screaming Go damn it Go. And on one level Id say go too, because this may never happen to you again.

However on the other hand if you like this girl and this is what she is in to then how much do you actually like her. Plus if you arent there will she be with some other guy??

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A female reader, Ditzydaisy United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2009):

Dear glum boi,

Well for one thing it's a sick porno idea that they want you to go. For another dump the girlfriend it's ridiculous that she's using this party as a way to make you cheat on her. It's a stupid and immature idea for sluts. Basically think about if it hadn't been you who'd been chosen as the guy. Then she would be cheating on you huh. And if her friends have boyfriends you'll be in deep poo. I'm telling you it's a bad idea but if you dont mind trouble go for it. It might catch up with you in the future though.

Hope this helps.

xxx

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