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51-59,
*ainaa_1752
writes:HiI feel too shy though I need sex. How can I ask my husband for sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): I don't think you have to ask him, maybe just indicate to him, take the initiative. (Most men really enjoys that if the women takes the lead occassionally).
Tease him; flirt with him; send him a sexy text message; organise a romantic dinner, waring very little or no under wear under neath your clothes, make sure he does notice it, do something obscure, to give him a flash;
vow, there is so many ways, to get him triggered,
even if just in bed, start holding him, fondling him; take hold of his penis, hold it, gently play with it...........
You do not always have to express yourself verbally!
Hmmmmmmmmm get ready for the enjoyment!
Good luck.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 Your still shy with someone your married to.
I have two courses you can take
1. Get into something sexy, make the bedroom romantic, then you wont even have to ask, he will know
2. Say "hey want sex" either way it should happen
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 i agree with rcn, sex is something that just happens, like a kiss. not very many people ask for a kiss, they just go for it and hope for the best.
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reader, rcn +, writes (10 June 2008):
 You have to ask your husband for sex? Why is that? I thought shy is with those who you don't know, and not with someone you do.
Plan a romantic evening, and let the evening take its course. That way you get what you want without seeming needy for it.
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