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writes:Hi! I have a quick question. I'm new to all of this, and my friends told me that the best thing is to have your bf go down on you before sex. But when I get off when I masturbate, the walls inside get really super tight, and there's no pleasure down there anymore. What exactly am I supposed to do after the first orgasm since everything feels so stiff? How does it not hurt to have sex?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 June 2016):
 Every woman is different, and many can have multiple orgasms, while others are satisfied after the one. So really it is a question open to many answers. Doing oral can get your body ready for sex without actually your boyfriend finishing you off. It can just be a warm up. The thing is it is up to you and your boyfriend what you do sexually, your friends can give you advice, but do what you are both comfortable doing, find out what works for you best as every couple is different, you may find that you like other things more than oral. It is a learning curve to figure out what your body likes just enjoy getting to know each other sexually.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (22 June 2016):
Oral on a woman is normally use for one of two things...To turn her on big time and get her ready for sex, or to finish her off after sex.
Most guys cannot out last a woman in the bedroom. She needs way more foreplay than a man. If a woman is really good at foreplay, the man is done in two minutes. :))
Oral can be use from start to finish on a woman, and she could still be ready to have sex right after. However, depending on how big her orgasm is, she may have to wait a few minutes, as she can become very sensitive down there :)
For some women, the first orgasm is just a warm up...Each is different, and you will have to wait and see what your body does.
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