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writes:Ho do you know when a relationship is coming to an end or you're falling out of love with someone? I don't know whether this is the case so to walk away or whether this is just a phase because I'm bored at the moment? What do you think? What should I look out for or do to change things? Or is it time to go if I'm asking questions like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the advice. I decided, if I could write something like this at all, I didn't love him anymore and ended the relationship. I do disagree with anons comment about the fact that you can't fall out of love with someone, you just never really were in love at all. I do believe you can fall out of love because of the way they treat you or just because you both grow apart.
Thanks for everything, I feel good and feel the decision was the right one. I am a bit lonely right now, as I'm not used to this, but am looking forward to the single life and hopefully, in the distant future, finding someone who makes me happy for the rest of my life.
Thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): No such thing as 'fallen out of love'...you just weren't 'in love' in the first place...possibly infatuated...or just very keen etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): Hi! It sounds like you already know the answer to your own question. Your feelings have changed and you look at him differently, so you are wondering if youve fallen out of love. You may well have lost the feelings you originally had when you were in you 'honeymoon' period which everyone has. The question is 'Does he make you happy?'
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reader, MISTANG2  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 If you feel like your heart is not there anymore then save the other the pain and leave. There is nothing worse than loving someone who no longer loves you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): You know your relationship better than we do. If you feel bored with your relationship, sit down and talk to your other half. Let me know how you feel about it. Plan something, go somewhere.
Hope things work out.
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reader, Jiser +, writes (6 March 2007):
 Depends what you want from life? Perhaps some time apart will help, communication will as well! Don't mess your partner around though, its horrible to be on the other end of a 'hot and cold' relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): http://www.care2.com/channels/solutions/bms/3130
Paste this into your browser, it is a pretty good explanation of when your relationship is coming to an end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): When you fall out of love with someone that means that suddenly they don't feel special anymore and that you don't care for them as much. You haven't said anything about the relationship that you are in so i can't help that much. If you are bored in your relationship then you need to either work on it or walk away.
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reader, charly16 +, writes (6 March 2007):
If your wondering about these types of questions then maybe its time 4 you to move on. However it may be youre just going through a rough patch and u need some livening up. Watever you do, be it break or stick, dont cheat on him. It is better to break up with him than 2 stay with him and date someone else at the same time cos your bored.
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