So, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months and I'm having bit of a problem. It's about kissing. At the start he would french kiss a bit or kiss me a bit more passionately. But now, even though we kiss regularly, its never with tongue at all and I don't know why! I don't know whether it's because he thinks I don't want to or whether it's because I'm so terrible at kissing like that and he really doesn't want to. Also, when we do kiss, it isn't very passionate and sometimes it seems like he's almost holding himself back. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough or that he's getting bored with me. I'm just confused, what is going on??
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reader, YouWish + ♥, writes (15 June 2014):It could honestly be anything. French kissing may not do it for him. You may have had a bad breath moment, or he may have had one. If you've gone beyond kissing and are having sex or heavy petting or oral, it's common for many guys (and many girls actually) to skip the rug-burn inducing marathon kissing and get to the destination as fast as possible.
Tell him what you want! If you're mature enough to get physical with a guy, you should likewise be mature enough to communicate your needs to him, even in kissing. Don't be afraid to have the conversation about kissing. It may just be that getting more familiar means there's not as much time and effort into the foreplay. That's all too common and doesn't mean he's bored with you. He just may want to speed along the process. Tell him you want more passionate slow kissing with tongue!
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