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writes: I have been living with my fiance (of 1 yr only) for the past 4 years. Same age but I was married with 2 children. His family does not accept me, verbally and physically abused me already. He has done nothing. I am not allowed to any functions etc. He still goes. He wont stand up for me at all, says doesnt want bad vibes with family. Too scared to break the ice with anything. i love him but what do i do? i am deeply hurt by his attitude.
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (29 March 2006):
 He his hurting you phsically?Get out of this relationship.It's clear to me that he cares about his family and not you when they are around.Don't expect him to change has "A leopard never changes it's spots"Work out what you want from him.Do you love him that much that you can live for years of sly remarks from the family?If so then stay and cope and grit those teeth.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (29 March 2006):
 Why do they not accept you? What is it they percieve you have done? And does your partner believe you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2006): Do you really think there are going to be changes here. He has been non supportive of your feelings with for 4 years, he is not going to change anytime soon. Have you told him how you feel? It's either put up with this or move on, the option is yours.
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