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Hey I was wondering when guys say they don't know why two girls fooling around turn them on do they mean it?

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Question - (27 May 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey i was wondering when guys say they dont know why two girls fooling around turn them on do they mean it? Iv been just wondering cause like all guys i know say they dont know why it does lol, also cause all the girls i know dont get turned on when two guys fool around. So why is it diffrint for girls and guys? I cant figure out why theres an appeal with two girls but not two guys. (I know every one doesnt get turned on or off by the same stuff, im just talking about all the ones i know with is alot) Thanks for any input on this.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (28 May 2010):

LazyGuy agony auntSimple, it is sex without a hairy ugly competing male in the picture.

Straight men tend to be more definite in their straightness then women. A lot of women would tolerate a playboy in the house. Playgirl would not find the same tolerance with the male of the household.

Just watch general interaction, men NEVER touch each other unless it is brutally violent. Women hug all the time.

Men don't like other men to be seen in any sexual way whatsoever.

We also know why we like two girls fooling around. It is hot. It is just that women get offended if we claim that we find them hot... and offended if we claim that we don't find them hot... it is hard to be a man ;) a

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010):

i think it has something to do with that guys usually get more turned on by what they see. and girls with the thought/emotinal part. guys get turned on by emotional too, but are very visual in their turn ons.

hence: guys like girls= seeing two girls kissing turns them on

but also:guys like girls= thinking of "she likes me" turns them on

and: girls like guys= thinking of "he likes me" turns them on

(and yes, there have been several scientific studies on this, it's not my personal opinion)

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (28 May 2010):

YouWish agony auntI'm not a guy, but that's an easy one. Heterosexual males are turned on by WOMEN. They're turned on by women doing anything sexual, be it with a man or with each other or with themselves pleasuring themselves.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (28 May 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntMostly, it seems you think too much :) Guys like that sort of thing...it's one of their adorable kinks.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (28 May 2010):

person12345 agony auntThink of it this way. If you're only attracted to women would you rather see one woman and have to look at another guy in a sexual way or would you rather see two (or more) women without having to see some other guy's penis?

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A male reader, SepticOrc Japan +, writes (28 May 2010):

SepticOrc agony auntIf I did see two girls "fooling around", I will admit, I would get turned on. I don't know why, it just kind of does. I guess a man's body just gets a feeling that sex is coming, so you he gets turned on.

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