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writes: I broke up with my boyfriend about 5 months ago as we decided it wouldnt work out with me goin 2 college and him staying on a sixth form as we thought we wouldnt see each other, he moved on and by the end of the month was getting together with someone else which really hurt me. On our birthday i got drunk and rang him and told him i still loved him and wanted him back, we met up and he said that he couldn't get back together because he was getting together with someone else and didnt want to hurt her, i tried to move on and i actually thought i had but keep seeing him at parties and i feel as if theres something there. my best friend and him are good mates and whenever she asks hows it goin with his new girlfriend he always pulls a face, i would do anything to get him back i no its meant to be and i have a feeling deep down he feels the same but doesnt want to get hurt. he text me the other nite at 3 in the morning just to talk and my friend asked him whats going on between us and she said i think you still like her and she still likes you and he didnt say anything and just looked down. then later on he went up to her and said you no that theory you have about me and jo dont go telling everyone because i have a girlfriend and he kept asking if i still liked him. what should i do?
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reader, baby blue fairy  +, writes (12 February 2007):
Personally i would just move on find someone new forget this boy. Hes tryed to move on maybe you should every time he sees yoo he might feel guilty and rethink how hes bin with you in the past and try to cheer you up as a m8 ure m8 is egging both of you on just wantin some gossip this guy still likes you and if you feel the same tell him and make a go of it boys are nt the world there just yet another thing in it making it more and more difficult each day! best of luck ps soz i waz harsh to start with it just bugs me i mean y are all boys the same!!!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (11 February 2007):
 You need to stop acting like kids and sort this out. He's right, it's not fair to this other girl to have her hanging around if he still likes you. I get the feeling he only got with her try and make you jealous in the first place. You need to talk to him, stop talking through other people. You were a couple at one time, you can talk to him. How do you suppose you can have a relationship if you're too nervous to even say 2 words to him?
I don't know what he's playing at, maybe he does still like you or maybe you're friend is telling you what she thinks you want to hear? You never know in sitations like this, as the people involved are having no contact with each other. It's just silly and wasting time: if you want him back, you have to meet up and talk this through.
There was a reason you finished and it sounds like a sensible one to me. Be sure this is what you want this time before you let him come back into your life. We have a habit of always wanting what we cannot have and it's a big mistake to get someone back just for the sake of it. Think long and hard about why you split in the first place and why you want him back. Ultimately, if you are meant to end up together, you will.
Good luck
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