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writes:There's this guy from a party. He seems to like me.He talked to me, we had fun.. etc.He didn't really talked to other people, more to me. (According to my friends)He even said to a friend that I was still a minor. So he said that probably next year he would start chasing after me.He even suggested learning hip hop/dance together.He's an awesome guy, I hope to be friends with him.But the problem is, he's un-contactable.Well, I would only like the least to be friends with him.But I just can't. It's like impossible.I managed to find him on Facebook. (Through a friend) And I added him.He neither accepted nor rejected it.A friend of mine is friends with him on Facebook but not with me. (As it was another account)I saw that he was on Facebook recently. It was a week after I sent that friend request to him.He could have at least accepted or rejected it.But he left it there hanging.Why wouldn't he add me..? It's either:- No mutual friends- Unable to recognize my name- Unable to recognize my face- Something elseWhat should I do?I have his phone number.(From my friend)But if I were to call/text him it would be weird andit would seem desperate.Please tell me what should I do..
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (25 June 2011):
 Lesson number one with guys.
If he really wanted to keep in contact with you he would have done it already.
Let this one go sweetie. He was flirting and it was nice.
He is not bf material.
You are going to flirt with LOTS of boys. Enjoy that for what it is. But flirting is not a sign of sincere interest.
Them calling you first, talking to your friends about YOU, that is a sign of interest.
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reader, Orbiter  +, writes (25 June 2011):
To be honest I think you need to stop being so obsessed with this guy (I noticed your other post). Maybe he just wasn't that into you, yeah he had a fun time that day but there wasn't anything more to it than that. He may have to talked to you a bit more or maybe your friends were telling you what you wanted to hear. Or he sees no point/feels uncomfortable as you're still a minor. No offence but if he is unable to recognise your name/face that speaks for itself.I mean it could even be that he's forgot to accept your request (unlikely but I have done it to someone before by accident), it's only been a week or so.Whatever the reason try not to worry about it or think about it so much, just carry on as normal and if he accepts great, if not he wasn't the right person for you. It's not a huge deal. Also yeah I think texting/calling him to be added on Facebook would seem desperate.
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