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writes:I need some advice,I just dont know what to do anymore...My bf of nearly 2 years broke it off with me for the 3rd time a couple of days ago.I was expecting it 2 come soon.He's fed up with me 'naggin' him about the 'same stuff'.The thing is he's always going out drinking with his mates lately,never spends any time with me,I have to go and see him off my own back.It seems im secound best and when i try to talk to him, he just tells me to go home.He really isnt fair to me,sayin he loves me isnt enough anymore,hes hurt me so many times.I am heartbroken,i thought we was stronger than this.He rang me to see how i was yesterday and when i asked why he was phoning he replied'cos my mum told me to call.' It seems hes so angry why does it seem he wants to hurt me? A part of me wants to beg him back,as i always do,and try to work things out,cos this is stupid! and a part of me says 4get it,its never gunna change,and things are wearing thin on me now...any advice would be appreciated,thank you.
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reader, kaykay +, writes (14 March 2007):
hi i know how u feel tell him u need some time togther or its over (oh great i can give advice but cnt use my own advice)
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (14 March 2007):
 You are right,I dont think he will change,you have let him get away with it so many times. It doesnt sound like he wants a relationship flower and no matter how much you try to change him it just wont work,so do your self a big big favour and do not contact him anymore and if he rings you just tell him its over and you are moving on with your life now.
He just wants to be 1 of the lads and doesnt want any commitments so you have to understand that you are just making your self look daft by running after him.
Please listen to me cus I know what you are going throught, and I learned the hard way,but now im 27 and married to a great man who loves me so much and I wouldnt be without.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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