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writes:i've liked this guy for quite a while now and i think i'm falling for him. The only thing is he's really hard to understand and i don't know whether he's playing hard to get or just isn't interested. He hasn't had many girlfriends and he's the kind of person who just doesn't say if he really likes someone.We've kissed but only when we've had alcohol and he's really touchy feely when he's had a drink. However, when he's sober he doesn't show anything only a few glances at me. What does everyone think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): My husband is the same way, probably worse. They weren't shown from their parents how to express emotions and love, and they aren't comfortable doing it. Also, he probably is scared to show you his feelings. I will tell you though, do not expect him to change much. If you can't live with him being this way, I would look elsewhere because that's just how they are.
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reader, ambercich  +, writes (13 November 2007):
my bf is the same he says it is because it loosens him up becuase hes nervous and just to reasurre hes what you want and to make the move be a little more honest with how you feel
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (11 November 2007):
hey!! this is quite simple. some guys are hard to read but to see if he likes you then youve got to start talking!! ask him what films or music he likes etc. but some guys are shy and you know...if they like someone they might not show it. until you know then the only thing you can do is talk to him.hope this helps. good luck with the future. tell us how it goes.lolelliexxx
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