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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i dont know if this should bother me but it does, im seeing a guy now 3 months but he calls and texts his x nearly every day and she does the same, he is away from her 4 years now and says they are just good friends, but he tells her everything and this upsets me, its not the fact that he has such a close relationship with a woman its the fact that they spent 4 years together and she is an x, she also calls looking for favours and he does the same its like dating two ppl, dont know how to sort this out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): Im the poster of this question, i really appreciate your reply, and thank you for taking your time. I do think that he thinks we are in some episode of friends or something where every one is cool with xs n stuff.. And i hate felling i should be OK with the amount of contact and the closeness they share. My feelings are real and i must own them and if he loved me like he says he does he will back off
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reader, love-him +, writes (12 May 2007):
 tell him your feelings. if it was me, i would be staying with him if he was on the phone to her every day, you deserve someone who devotes themself to you, not two people. i understand this is annoying to you, but they could infact be just close friends. even so, i think you should talk to him, tell him your feelings, if he says well we're just friends tell him your not happy and if he asks u wat u want from all this, tell him you dont want her phonin and txtn all the time cos it is unfair on you. i hope i helped sorri i was abit storng on my words x x x
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