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writes:A while ago I met a guy who I really liked from the start.I had a boyfriend at the time but I went to the guys party and in a bit of a tipsy state I kissed him. From then on I fell for him, but I still had my boyfriend.I was in a long distance relationship. I couldn't handle it anymore so I broke up with him. I only cried that night when I, in a very drunken state because i was sad about the my ex because I liked him but he lived to far away, was staying with the guy I fell for's house. I am also really good friends with his sister.I was upset because he now had a girlfriend and he was flirting with another girl at the house but not with me. I started crying for at least an hour and I told him everything I had kept a secret and then told him I loved him. The next day when he told me this I apologised alot!!!But then the that night I kissed him. I had to share his bed and I couldn't say no when he tried. The next day he told me he regretted it. I couldn't believe it because I thought it would mean something to him. I cut myself when I got home that night and I was scared.After a while, I kind of got used to the fact that he had a girlfriend but silently hoped we would soon be together. Then this weekend he dumped his girlfriend. That night he had his school dance and even though he didn't kiss anyone, he started messaging one of my good friends.She told me she thinks he is ugly and so I know she is only doing it because she knows I love him. They were putting tonnes of x's and mwa's and saying they loved each other. She had hooked up with him before.He flirted with me a little but I resisted even though it was hard.Even if he did tell me he liked me, I know he would hurt me because he is such a flirt and I know that he is a cheater too, and a bad one.I just need to know how to get over him but still be able to be friends!Even if the only way is picturing him doing something stupid because I am hurting so much and I am scared that soon I'll do something stupid.I dont even know why I like him so much! He isn't really hot, he can be totally gross sometimes, he is a total player but I simply can't get over him!!!I just need a clean slate and the fact his sister is my new best friend doesn't help!!Please help me and tell me how to get over him???Thanxconfused from zimbabwe age 15
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reader, toni246  +, writes (1 June 2008):
delete all messages from him and make sure you dont go back to his house when he is there. It may take a while because you said that you loved him but in the end it will be worth it. I would concentrate on finding someone else and have fun with them so this would take your mind off him
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