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I'm in love and it freaked him out

Q.   Dear Cupid, One Of My Friends told the guy iv been meeting that im totally in love with him, im not sure why but i know its not out of jealousy, anyway the point is i think it freaked him out and he doesnt talk to me anymore, and i dont know if ...

A.   3 June 2008: i would tell your friend to stay out of it because it has nothing to do with them. Now with the boy tell him straight that your not in love with him and talk to him normally. This will make him feel more comfortable again... (read in full...)

How can I stop flirting with my teacher?!? I don't mean to!

Q.   Hey everyone!! Ok i LOVE my teacher and it's NOT a crush but thats got nothing to do with my problem. I talk to him sometimes and i make him laugh by just saying one thing but apparently when i talk to him i flirt with him and i don't mean to....

A.   1 June 2008: If you dont know that your flirting with somebody you cant exactly stop doing it unless you dont see them no more to stop it but its one of your teachers so you cant stop seeing them. As long as nothing happens i dont see a problem with it to be ... (read in full...)

Will having meaningless sex at such a young age make it less meaningful later in my life?

Q.   I'm 16, never actually dated, and I recently lost my virginity to a guy that I don't have feelings for. I think (protected)M sex is fun, but I'm worried about how it could effect my relationships later in life. Will having meaningless sex ...

A.   1 June 2008: Make sure that you did have protected sex if you dont know get tested and dont worry, having sex at a young age doesnt mean anything. Lots of people have sex at 16 but are fine later in life having a stable relationship and got married... (read in full...)

I danced with another girl, now my gf dumped me for it. how do I get her back?

Q.   I was going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months and she found out i was at a party and i was grinding with another girl and she broke up with me and said she never wants to c me again. How do i get her back? do u think shell take me back?...

A.   1 June 2008: Not worth it. If she is going to get jealous over that wonder what else she would get jealous over in the future and then she would get to controlling and next thing you know it she will be telling you what to do... (read in full...)

I cannot work out whether I really do bring out the worst in him and men in general as he said or whether these are signs I should leave!

Q.   My boyfriend and I had a really bad argument about our future (there is a lot of pressure surrounding finances and commitment etc)on holiday and it became physical. I threw a cushion at him and he shoved me and I fell on the floor. This hurt my ...

A.   1 June 2008: No one should make you feel this way. If i had a boyfriend who would treat me like or even pushed me and badly bruised me i would walk out straight away. He shouldnt be saying anything about your previous relationship because it has got nothing to ... (read in full...)

I don't like her back!!!

Q.   Hi, I'm 15. I've been single for almost 2 years now. My hearts always out to beautiful girls I cant have. But this one girl likes me. She's crazy for me. But I dont like her back. I don't consider her to be my type nor beautiful. I f...

A.   1 June 2008: I would let her down gently by pulling her aside from her friends and your friends and make sure no one is about and then tell her that you only just want to be friends. Then she wont be embarrassed and then tell her friends that she didnt fancy you ... (read in full...)

I had sex with the guy I met on line, but he does not know I am a minor as I lied about my real age!

Q.   Right this may sound really stupid, and anyone who reads this is going to think I have a very low self estime and no confidence at all. But I used to go on chat rooms quite often, when I was bored or had no one to talk to on msn, and just for fun I ...

A.   1 June 2008: At least you know that you did something wrong and you can learn from this mistake. Dont meet up with him again and dont think about him because a lie cant stay a secret forever and if he finds out that you are underage he would go mad like if the ... (read in full...)

Should I try and steal this girl from her long distance boyfriend?

Q.   I am studying abroad right now and realized I like a girl here. The thing is this girl has a boyfriend. She has been dating him for about 7 months or so, but he moved to another part of the country about 4 months ago. She talks to him a lot, and I ...

A.   1 June 2008: I wouldnt do anything because you cant interfer in her relationship. If you want to tell her how you feel think of the consequences and that should stop you. You can still hang about with her and she might find you more and more appealing but its ... (read in full...)

He's hurt me and is bad for me - but I still want him!

Q.   A while ago I met a guy who I really liked from the start. I had a boyfriend at the time but I went to the guys party and in a bit of a tipsy state I kissed him. From then on I fell for him, but I still had my boyfriend. I was in a long distance re...

A.   1 June 2008: delete all messages from him and make sure you dont go back to his house when he is there. It may take a while because you said that you loved him but in the end it will be worth it. I would concentrate on finding someone else and have fun with them ... (read in full...)

Girls only see me as a friend...

Q.   How odd is it to almost be 23 years old and still not had any real relationships? I am a 23 year old male and relatively good looking, or so I am told by some female friends. The problem is I just don't know how to move from the friendship stage...

A.   1 June 2008: i would say just go out with your mates to town and find somebody there. Dont go for a relationship with your friends because it will get complicated and if you do have a relationsip with a friend and does end, it may end awkard and you could have ... (read in full...)

I'm so love sick over my girl - what do I do?

Q.   Ok where to begin i really need advise ive talked to my freinds and ive also talked to family and they all have told me the same thing. I been going out with a girl for almost 2 years now she means the world to me and i can honestly say that i love ...

A.   1 June 2008: I dont think that the relationship is fair on you. When in a relationship its suppose to work both ways and not just one way. If she is like this i dont think you should be with her no more and just try and find someone else. Tell her that you cant ... (read in full...)

Does he like me?

Q.   Hi im 14 and i don't know what to do! I really like this guy and evertime we go out with our friends hes all flirty and like hugs me sits on my lap gets me to sit on his and like cuddles me and sometimes holds my hand. Does this mean he fancys m...

A.   1 June 2008: I would say so but dont be quick to ask him out i would leave it for a couple of week to make sure that he does otherwise you wouldnt want to feel rejected if he doesnt feel the same about you... (read in full...)

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