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He's great but I just don't feel anything for him

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Question - (26 November 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2013)
A female United States age 26-29, *zzygurl writes:

Hey everyone,

My boyfriend and I been going out for a month now, we are both 18, we don't argue, he treats me nice but he's not really the romantic type, he's really nice and sweet, but I feel like there's something missing I just don't have that connection with him yet.

My other relationships it's really different I feel so connected with them and sometimes fall in love or start having the butterfly feeling in my stomach.

I don't know why I don't feel anything for him, he's really cute and he's goes to school and seem so nice and has everything going for him, but I don't know what's wrong with me. I care about him though. I was thinking maybe because it's too early in the relationship that's why I'm not feeling that way. What do you guys think? Thanks :*

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (29 November 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI think that you just don't have the chemistry necessary to make it work with him.

If you don't feel it, it's not going to magically appear...

do not settle at this point for anything less than the magic you've felt before....

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A female reader, llifton United States +, writes (28 November 2013):

llifton agony auntI think that if that spark isn't there, then it probably wont be. If you feel something is missing, there's probably a reason for it.

You can't force a connection. And I wouldn't think giving it time would change it.

I would move on before more time is invested.

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