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writes: Hi! I met a guy about 2 years ago we have been talking off and on. We have hung out about 3 times cause of certain circimstances. I met him when i was going through divorce and he is in the military. We stopped talking to each because at that time i really didnt know what was going to happen and he was going to be sent to the other side of the world. We got in contact again after 6 motnhs and hit off again, emaling each other of course. Between that time i didnt talk to him i tried to see if my marriage could have worked out but it didnt. So now we are seperating for sure this time. This guy who im talking to is overseas now and we are making plans to see each other after he comes back from there. I am falling for him, and dont know how he feels. We have never mentioned anything about being together, but we are making plans to see each other. We tell other we think about each other all the time and we end our emails with "Yours". I dont know what to think. I dont want to scare him off. Just because he knows im just finishing up divorce paper work. Plus i had to email him telling him that my ex was trying to get his email address and try to email him to tell him to stop talking to me. I had to inform him, about what my ex was trying to do. And since then i havent heard from him this was about 2 weeks ago, now its normal to not hear from him in 2 weeks cause he cant email me all the time, but i guess im even more worried now that i wont hear from him cause of the email i sent him telling him what was going on.I told him i didnt want to stop talking to him cause it would hurt me very much. Now im just sitting here waiting and checking my email every five minutes. I dont know what to do i need some advice.Thanks in advance.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (21 August 2005):
 My advice is to stop checking your email every five mins. I don't think if this guy really likes you that he will be intimidated by your ex's e-mail and being in the military they don't get intimadated like that. See where this goes...you guys have been friends for so long this seems like it is in the stars so far. Leave your ex to his devices...this military will most likely contact you. If he does not because of what your ex sent to him...then well you will see his true colours then. But be patient and relax don't worry....ana
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