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writes:Hi everyone, I need some helpful advice. I am in love with a friend and want to tell him how i feel but don't know how to tell him. I'll try to keep this short- we met 5 years ago through mutual friends and as soon as we meet i knew i liked him and we got on really well but we were both in relationships at the time. We were very close at one point and almost kissed on a night out so i know he had feelings for me too. I split from my partner 2 years ago and went through a bad patch he did try to be there for me but i pushed him away, i guess i didn't want him to see me hurt. Ever since we have drifted apart, we kept in touch by chatting on msn and email. I haven't seen him for a year and we bumped into each other last week and chatted for about an hour and ever since i have not stopped thinking about him my feelings for him have all came flooding back and i still get butterfly's when i see him. At first when we first met i thought it was just a crush but even when i didn't see him for a year he was always on my mind. I don't think i have ever felt like this about anyone, how do i talk to him and tell him how i feel?.Sorry if this is long lol thanks for taking time to read this xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): Just talk to him like you always do then causally bring up the subject. Try to lead up to it but remember he may not return the feeling after not seeing you for nearly a year.
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reader, xxloopyloo123xx  +, writes (11 June 2008):
 what i think you should do ... is to meet up more. if you have not seen him for over a year and have just seen him then i think it is a bad idea to tell him at the moment. i think you should meet up with him a few more times. don't wait for another year to go by though. meet up with him and after a few times of it, and you still have the same feelings, then tell him. if you think he has the same feelings as you have towards him, then i would tell him soon rather than later because you dont want another year to go past do you?
hope this helps
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