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He's avoiding me because he doesn't want to take my virginity before I'm ready

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Question - (2 August 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *amousLoverGirl writes:

Hey guys! Well, I've been friends with my friend, Mark 4 about 3 mon. He liked me from the start but I didn't really like him til about a mon. after I met him. Our families went camping 2gether and we talked a lot and pretty, I think deep. But we didn't have sex or kiss or anything like that. In the conversations sex talk did come up but I told him I don't want 2 have sex til I'm married. Anyways, after camping he went 2 CA 4 almost a mon. B4 he left I was wondering if he really did like me. He talked 2 his cousin, whom I know. She told me that he really likes me but he wants 2 keep his distance cuz he doesn't trust himself with me, he wants 2 protect me from having sex with him. But I still want him 2 b around me and show me that he does like me kinda chase after me, ya know? We aren't dating cuz I have 2 wait til I'm 17 and we are both 15. Should I tell him I like him so that maybe he'll wait 4 me til I can date? What should I do? What should I say?

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (5 August 2010):

The Realist agony auntTell him how you feel, if you want to try the relationship out and see what happens or that you care and don't want to risk it. Talk to him about waiting for sex and dating so its all out in the open. Then see what else comes up but it is definitely important to talk to him.

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A female reader, FamousLoverGirl United States +, writes (4 August 2010):

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Hey! Well, my question was what should I do and say to him. Should I talk to him about it? Thank u all 4 answering though! :)

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A male reader, pinto United States +, writes (3 August 2010):

you should talk to him first...

but it seems that his cousins just covering for him ya think?

though it sounds like he respects the boundries

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (2 August 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntIt sounds (aat first blush) that he respects you very much and doesn't trust his capabilities to hold back around you. I'd say you're lucky to have a friend like him.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (2 August 2010):

The Realist agony auntThis may be a situation where you have to choose between finding another guy who says he will wait for you or going with this one who has no intention of waiting till you're married. I'm not saying that he won't wait but there is only so long someone who wants sex can wait. If you can't date till 17 tell him you want to keep in touch but you both should go on and live your lives not passing up opertunities for this person. If in two years you are both single and have been talking it will work out if it was meant to be. You are too young to be waiting around for one person. Trust fate and things will work out how they were meant to.

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