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writes:Hello. Well theres this guy at my school and he has a girlfriend. at school today he kept putting his hand on my leg and trying to kiss me (i kept telling him no) but he just kept on doing it, im not sure what i should do, tell his girlfriend or not? and also if a guy cheats once will he always do it?
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reader, shadowfire +, writes (10 February 2011):
shadowfire is verified as being by the original poster of the question heyy guys thanks for answering they both really helped. i told the girl she got all angry so yeah i gave up, they broke up today cause she cought him cheating =] and yeah i would want to know if someone was cheating on me to, so thats why i told her XD thanks guys again you guys are awsome =] xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): hii...well, i don't believe that the "once a cheater, always a cheater" thing is true, because everybody can change. But do i believe that you should tell his girlfriend about his behavior??? ABSOLUTELY!!! put yourself in her shoes. if YOUR boyfriend was "trying it on" with another girl, wouldn't you want to know about it instead of just living a lie??? besides, if he's doing this with more girls than just you, she's bound to find out sooner or later. However, if you do decide to tell her, make sure you do it in as delicate a way as possible. and like chigirl said before me, drop it if the girlfriend doesn't believe you. whether she believes you or not, though, i'd say that telling her is definitely the right thing to do. ")good luck, and God bless,~sarsar~
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (8 February 2011):
 If a guy cheats once it is typically not a sign of him cheating again, but a sign that he puts himself first and doesn't respect others. This could in turn means that yes, he's more likely to cheat again, but he could also be selfish in other areas, such as neglecting a girlfriend, or not caring about her feelings, only wanting to talk about himself etc.
He could grow out of it and learn to respect people, but that could be years from now.
Tell the girlfriend, why not. Do her a favour and let her know what a prick she's dating. But if she doesn't believe you then don't bother with it anymore.
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