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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating this girl for 9 months. I am 16 years old. she is 15. i love her so much as she says she loves me just as much.at the beginning of our relationship she would talk to lots of guys and i would get jealous and tell her not to. she still did behind my back after she said she would stop. i would yell and get angry and we would get in a fight.she would cry about this guy that broke her heart for like the five months of our relationship. that was really upsetting but she forgot him.she would also talk about this other guy that hurt her and i fought him but i lost because she wanted me to fight him and i had no reason the only reason i had was her telling me that they fucked along time ago which made me mad.she would always insult me and they would hurt and i would cry like everynight. it was like she was the man and i was the female. one thing that she would hurt me with most is my height i am kind of short, and she would say she wants a big man. my parents would tell me she wants another dick. then i did not really believe them but 3 weeks ago she cheated on me with this guy that i told her not to talk to. it took her 3 weeks to tell me. she said that she did not stop it when he tried to fuck her. she said the guy finished in 30 seconds because he did not have sex for a while or because he is just a pussy. she said that the guy she cheated on me with went and cried in his basement and she cried and left. that day she came to my school. we went over to chill at my friends house the guy she cheated on me with was there. but i did not know anything yet. she would act weird aand fucked up. then one day we were at a party it was the best party of life because i am a really cool guy and people where chanting my name and shit. then after we were really drunk we got into a fight and she punched me in the nose. she is a girl and cant hurt me i think to my self but she made me have a bad nose bleed. then she is like i cheated on you she told me and insulted me before she told me.now she came over to my place because she could not go home. and we woke up in the morning. getting to the point: She cheated on me for this ugly guy and i am so much better then him, she said she is so sorry and she made a big mistake. i am soo hurt and i just want to shoot this guy. we are on a break for a week and i need to know what to do and what will happen?Should i stay with her? Will she treat me differently? Will i be happy? Should i try to fight this guy? PLEASE HELP!!!
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reader, saima khan  +, writes (31 May 2010):
i think u shoud give her one more chance.
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reader, vssia  +, writes (31 May 2010):
I read the original question, and I don't need to read the rest to know what to say.
Break up with her
Get over her
Move on
Eat gummy bears but save the green ones for me, ok?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): how can you not see she is manipulating you first off seems she doesnt care that much cause you say she insults you and all that and secondly when someone is a cheater-generally he will stay a cheater its not everyone who stays like that but most people do. what i would recommend is taking time to talk with her about that and maybe seeing an arrangement if you really love her so much but depends on oyur borderlines, remember that if you forgive her in her head she may be like he loves me so much that i can od it again and he will forgive me, dont forget thats what happens to most cheaters, it already hapenned to me thta my girlfrend cheated on me and i forgave hr but she did it again..
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reader, YouWish +, writes (31 May 2010):
 Geeze. Okay, listen. This girl is NOT good for you. First of all, NO ONE should lay their hands on another person. Her hitting you is NOT right. It doesn't matter that you're a guy and she's a girl. That's physical ABUSE., and she will not change that part of her.
Also, she's trying to make you fight other guys? Why do that? SHE is the one who cheated on you. Don't go after the other guy. Let him have her. She thrives on drama and soap opera craziness, and you have to get away from her for good. You need someone who's going to love you, and a REAL love, not one that is high on emotions and low on moral character.
You need to stay on break. Don't go back to her. You say you're so much better than this ugly guy? You're better than HER. Cut her out of your life and never let another girl hit you ever again.
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