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writes:Hi,I got out of a 3 year relationship about 2 months ago and have been doing fine being single, recently I came across a really cute girl and we hung out together twice, both times with a bunch of my friends. We have a fair bit in common and we have planned to hang out again this week but just the two of us this time.My problem is that I can never differentiate between friendly affection and a date, or if someone is interested in me. I have caught her looking at me a few times, I know that it sounds great that we keep making plans to hang out, but I'm just a little paranoid.She has made it perfectly clear she's shy and a little afraid of making moves. We had a very alluding conversation giving our thoughts on relationships and how we go about them. Clearly she's interested in a long-term relationship, and I would like to ask her out, just I haven't been single in a while and I don't want to mess this up.I'm trying not to come on too strong! I know that's a major turn off. Would it be wise to hold her hand or something the next time we hang out if the signals are there? I have something cute planned for her, a treat involved nutella and this elaborate baking scheme she told me about a while ago before we met, so maybe she'll think that's cute in a way.I'm really bad at deciphering actions, though. One day she seems interested and says stuff, the next she doesn't, or at least that's how my paranoia interprets it.A little advice would be great.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 What do you have to loose just ask her out she can either say yes or no. If she says no theres some 10 million women in canada im sure you will find another. Personally i would never ask one girl out i would ask three or four at a time always have plan A,B,and C. So go for it what else can you do rite.
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