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Help me to understand boys better!

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Question - (13 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I asked a question earlier this week asking for advice in a slow relationship and I received wonderful answers.

Brief outline of my problem:

Me and this guy have become very close, get refered to as Bf and Gf all the time. Spend all our time together. Im really enjoying the time spent together but what happens next?

Well, yesterday we had a Rowing Regatta, and I left immediately after the race because it had gone really badly and i felt embarrassed and humiliated and was very cross at one of the other members of the boat because she has been rude to me. I said goodbye to him from the other side of the river as I ran to my car.

I later receives a text from him saying:

"You left early, I thought we were gonna have some fun ;) "

I was slighty shocked and replied that:

" I was in such a bad mood I would have bit you if you came with in a foot of me"

He said:

"i would have liked that"

What does he mean by this? He might have been messing around but he does contasntly hold my boobs (I don't object to this) but i was upset because he didn't understand how upset I was. What did he mean? Does he want to take our relationship further?

Any help would be fab - I don't understand boys yet!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2010):

He's a young guy. And like all young guys, he has no tact at all. He didn't understand how you felt because you weren't there to tell him and show him. So he made a silly male remark relating to sex instead. He certainly wants you to take the relationship further. He just didn't understand how upset you were.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010):

I think it meant what it meant- he`d pretty muck like it if you give hit a Bjob. But in my oppinion, don`t do it yet. First start to understand boys better then do the fun stuff. It`ll be better when you know where you stand and how to handle things.

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