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female
age
30-35,
*hamaine
writes:Please help, me and my boyfriend of 5 months (doesnt seem long, but 5 months being official, we loved each other long before we went out.) We are perfect together, he always speaks to me morning and day, always making sure im okay and random calls, texts saying "iloveyou" and real great times together out and about. We are serious, but we didnt rush right into sexual involvement, we were about to get there when he started talking to me less and not meeting up. i was upset but went with it hoping it was just a bad week, but i got a text from him saying he wants a break and he doesnt feel the love for me anymore, he wants to try and fix it, but he never sounds to sure, he says he likes being single, but it doesnt feel right etc etc. he said he needs to think about it for a while and then meet up and talk about it. that is my time to convince him to try again which im not sure he wants to do, i really dont understand why he suddenly wants a break or split, he even said i havent done anything wrong, its just when he couldnt talk or meet up with my that the lose of contact made him drift away from me, what can i do while he thinks about it and any advise on how i can get him to try again? anything, honestly anything will be very much appreciated! i dont want to loose him! i see a great future with him, he even said that before to. please, any advise, thanks!
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reader, MightyMouse  +, writes (26 June 2011):
Hey im sorry to hear about that. I don't know what advice i can give you. I think you need to talk to him ask why he broke up with you see were that conversation takes you. Maybe its something you can fix maybe not. But some words of wisdom. you're young. if this relationship wasn't meant to be you'll be able to find another that's just as good maybe even better. just have patience.
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