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writes:I am a 21 year old female mother of 2 beautiful kids. Their father whom I was with for many of years (since a young girl) had broke my heart. He always wanted to chill be around me and everything else. This past Easter Sunday March 2008 he wanted me and the kids to go to his mother's house so we went over there, we did our business and then 2 hours went by. He took me in to the bathroom and said he needed to talk, so I sat there and listend. Then out of nowhere he said "I have a girlfriend". What kind of shit is that. I cried for hours minutes and days. What can I do to get over him. He was my first real love the only one I could see myself with besides the fact that we do have 2 kids together?????
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 *hugs* Sorry this has happend some people are just so selfish, now i do have a way to make you feel better but its really childish but does make you feel better it involves breaking everything he owns cutting up his clothes and chucking them out the window when he comes to get his stuff. But ya know thats just what i would do cause i get a little petty when i get angry.
This guy has cheated on you and thats the bottom line he has someone else and there isnt anyway to change that so you grieve for the loss of your marriage not him, he is worthless and thinks he can do better then you? Well you can do 100 times better then him, and one day when he crawls back begging for forgiveness you can slam the door in his face knowing your better then him.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 If someone you love wants to leave and does not love you
anymore,you will have to allow him to leave.
If you love a person , you need to set him free..
You want him to be happy and to seek his own happiness.
You do not want to be in his way of attaining his happiness.
When you think this way for his good,
you will feel better and can get over him quickly.
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reader, Tanyas247 +, writes (30 March 2008):
 Dear Heartbroken,
He sounds like a very casual guy. It's very good that he was honest. But, we all have a first love! I know you two have a past, but you deserve to be happy with someone who really wants to be with you. There will be another man who loves you more, but you haven't met him yet because of this guy. This is your chance to pick up your confidence and be an independent mom who knows she's worth a good loving man.
Best to you.
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