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writes: I'm fourteen and i'm really in love with my teacher ! It is so bad, seeing him at school knowing that i can't get him. It started last year but i thought it was just a chrush that would pass by but after the summer holiday i just really fell in love with him. But he isn't teaching me now, just the grade below. He's like really shy and cute and has that stunning smile. but i see him every day and it's so hard looking at him and seeing him walking by and smiling at me when i'm just too shy to do anything. I don't dear telling my friends about it but i think they're starting to notice something. Like some times in lunch i'm just waching him and sometimes i accidentally smile or somethink and i talk about him daily and just can't stop thinking about him. I really want him but i want to know if he has any feelings to me... He talks to me like when we meet and smiles at me, and he is really funny, telling jokes and stuff and he's really smart too :) But my questin is: how can i know how his feelings are and wjat should i do??~ The girl who really needs help with her forbidden love !
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reader, Aithers1845  +, writes (21 January 2012):
 I've been like this for about a year now as well. It helps if you try to do as much as you can, things that aren't school related, to take your mind off them. It's okay to talk to teachers and stuff, if it makes you feel better talking to him, just talk to him!
I know how this feels, but do NOT make the mistake of telling him EVER.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2010): Hun, this happened (actually is happening) to me right now. Heres my two cents worth. Stop. Its not love or even a crush, its more like admiration ok?? You WILL get past this, just promise me and every reader that you will NOT take this any further, ok?
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks,, i know it's really weird,, and btw it's 14 here on iceland not 18... i try to let it go, and i've been dating boys on my age.... doesn't work haha.. wish it stopped..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): No sane man would have a crush on a fourteen year old girl. He is a teacher, in a position of authority over you, and it is illegal. He does not have feelings for you, he is probably just being friendly. But I know how you feel, I fancied my teacher for a good 8 months. Once I started to date a boy my age, my teacher just faded into the background. You need to get out with your friends and date boys your own age. Distract yourself!
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reader, curious0hot  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 Your teacher does not have feelings for you, unless he is sick (aka a pedophile).
It is normal to develop crushes on your teacher. However, you can not act on them until you are 18 (in the United States anyway), no longer attending that school, and he feels the same way.
I suggest doing activities/interacting with other people in a positive way.
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reader, xxjust_mexx +, writes (1 February 2010):
 he doesnt have feelings for you (unless he is a peadophile)
the only feelinings he will have will be aa teacher / student relationship, caring how you get on with your studies / wishing you well in the.. etc... he doesnt fancy you trust me
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