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Heartache, crush, and being second best

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Question - (1 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ijackedheart writes:

i like this guy, alot in my college. he knows i like him. he asked his friends things about me and everything and several times he came to talkto me. but i was too shy to talk. however, i discovered that he was heartbroken by someone he liked getting with other men. i went to a party that night, and he said nothing to me. im really crushed i really like this person and i still do what should i do ?

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A male reader, lkthinh Viet Nam +, writes (1 June 2009):

lkthinh agony auntDear Hijacked Heart,

From what you described, that guy got all the necessary elements to attract most girls and you are one of them. A story of a heartbroken guy because whatever reason always has a kind of magic to attract girls and they feel that they need to be with him and console him and so on.

I did not say that he's faking all that or anything just to "hijack your heart". Though, it's completely good for you to follow what you think will make you happier =) Just make sure that you know who you are, be aware of your values and NEVER let him hurt you whatsoever.

Good luck, little lady.

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A female reader, Anastasia Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (1 June 2009):

Anastasia agony auntHi,

Every thought talking to him might be a good idea. Saying hi at first, having lunch, going for a walk.

if he came to talk to you and you were too shy, he might have taken that to be rejection, he is already hurt by another relationship....don't give him another reason to be heartbroken

Talk to the guy already!!

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