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writes:i am 16 soon to be 17 and i am really confused i really need your help theres a boy at school i like but hes got a girlfriend and i did something i regret i sent him rude pictures i hate myself for doing it the thing is he flirts back with me and i feel like i am falling in love with him i wonder if you can help me please write back and help me clear my head
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reader, Jen1689  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 This boy isn't interesting in you if he's asking you for nude photos while he's got a girlfriend. I'm sorry to say that, but it happens quite often among people in your age group. Don't freak out over the nude pictures just yet. Just be sure not to do it again, no matter how charming he is and no matter how much he flirts. He has a girlfriend, and it's obvious that he's just wanting something from you without having to leave her. A lot of girls I went to school with got sucked into that trap. If you want to harmlessly flirt with him then fine, but I wouldn't get too attached. Also, I doubt you're in love with him. No offense, but he asked for nude photos of you while being in a relationship with someone else. He doesn't seem like a good guy. I wouldn't even want to know how he'd be if you two were in a relationship. Just try to be smooth about it, and don't freak out on him about the pictures. He probably doesn't want his girlfriend to find out, so I doubt he'll show them to anyone. Good luck!
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reader, lovestruckash +, writes (24 January 2011):
Hey,
Okay listen up I know you liked him but you did this the wrong way. First things first sending him the rude pictures was disrespectful to yourself and to her. The boy should of liked you for who you was and no matter how much you liked him you should of respected the relationship. I don't know what you mean by rude but I'm pretty sure it wasn't nice and now he looks at you in a sexual way I'm sure. He's not thinking your a nice girl when he flirts he's thinking about the pictures in a bad manner he likes you because he probably thinks you don't respect yourself and he can maybe use you. But he's wrong I'm sure stay Away from this guy he obviously doesn't respect his girlfriend if he's flirting with you. And he's no good love yourself and stay away because he'll never take you serious Esp since you exploited yourself. Please love yourself and know this is not the way to impress a guy or make him like you be yourself I promise you someone will come along and respect you for that. Rude pictures are bad attention. Keep your head up
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