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writes:My boyfriend accused me of flirting with his best friend which caused a big argument but then even after we made up he was acting weird and erased all of his messages and call log. i then logged into his facebook a couple of days later and saw he had been flirting with a girl he had sex with on holiday last year. i then confronted him he said he wasnt flirting at all but he was calling her tits and asking her to call him, do i have a right to be annoyed and worried?He was flirting with a girl he had a sexual past with, Do I have the right to be annoyed?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni spoke to him about it and he said that i only saw part of the conversation and he only asked her to call him because he was bored. we always go on eachothers phone and facebooks because i know i have nothing to hide so he can read any text he wants and he says the same thing but deletes all his texts and says it was because his inbox was too full. i know he will never cheat on me with this girl because she lives so far away but its just the flirting and secrets i cant stand. its just hard to lose him because we have been together for a long time but its only been happening the past couple of months.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): Firstly, to be going on to HIS facebook and HIS phone then you must have some trust issues as it stands which is surely unhealthy for your relationship and by the sounds of it he sounds like a waste of space! I'd suggest you get rid and find someone worth your time.. of course you have a right to be jealous.. if he's asked another girl to call him then surely that should be enough to make you realise he's not as serious about you as you are about him!
you don't deserve that, so go find someone better :) Good luck hun. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): Well, even if I had just heard that he accused you out of the blue of betraying him I would suggest that he might be doing that to distract you from whatever he's up to. But that along with the fact he's been using his facebook to flirt with girls then I would absolutely believe he was only giving you a hard time because he's guily as hell o it himself. Guys sometimes do this as a way to turn it on you if things go bad. I know my ex pulled this shit all the time. Out of nowhere he would say stupid things like, "how long have you & him been messing around?". which was so random to me but he was just setting the stage to either get mad @ me so he could leave or to have the excuse of "You did it to me first" if I ever caught him up to no good. Ditch him. He's playing games with you. He sounds like a selfish little punk like my ex. Dump him & be better off. I promise.
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