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*reelonely
writes:hi,i am 19 yrs girl.i was in a relationship to one guy.he is my senior in my college.i love him a lot.i was in a relation only for 1 month..i understood that he was cheating me.his friends told that.and i heard from his mouth that he was cheating me.he told to his friends.so we break up.after that i never contacted him.while seeing in colllege also i never mind him.but after many days ho told to his friend that he feel regret on himself why he did like this with me..and his friend told to me.after that he called me and messaged me.after that i use to call him everyday..now he had gone to his native.he is not taking my call.i dont know why??i love him a lot.i dont know about him.what i should do to get him as my own??please help me..
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 October 2011):
 You don't "love " him, you barely know him ! you have dated him for just one month, and in such a short time he managed to cheat on you. You are infatuated with him, but you don't love him as a person, you love the romantic ideas you have around him and the plans and hopes you had about this relationship. iWhich unluckily reality has cruelly belied.
It's like you had scripted a movie in your head casting him as the male romantic character , and he won't play his role, and that makes you disappointed and frustrated.
Change movie, it's all you can do.Even if there was a magic recipe to get this boy back to you, ... if he cheated on you within the first month he can't be so interested in you, don't you think ? He'd just cheat on you again, and you'd take him back again, and he'd cheat again and so on and so forth. Much better to cut any contact and not get stuck into this sort of vicious cycle.
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reader, sreelonely +, writes (29 October 2011):
sreelonely is verified as being by the original poster of the question but i love him..i cant forget him....i need him back to my life.,..what should i do?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 you say "i love him alot" why? what does he do that makes you love him alot.
he cheated on you
he therefore LIED to you...
I'm betting the regret he feels is not at what he did to you but at getting caught...
he is not taking your calls because he is not inerested.
stop calling him
stop wanting him
move on.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 He cheated on you and if he wanted you back he would be the one making the effort now, but instead he is ignoring your calls. This tells me that he doesn't care about you, because if he did he would be doing everything in his power to be making up with you, and showing you that he can be trusted. He disrespected you by cheating on you, you are worth more and deserve so much better, don't waste your time on this guy because you will only get more hurt. Move on and find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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