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writes:My boyfriend is wanting to try new things in the bedroom. I am all up for trying new things and he really wants to be tied up, and for me to take charge. I'm a bit nervous as he has had it done before me and says it was rubbish so im worried that i might be just as bad as she was. Any suggestions of what to do, or even where to begin? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008): Well, you allow him to have what he wants...don't think it through, for he hasn't. After kneeling in the closet for 4 straight hours, with his hands cuffed behind his back and his ankles shackled together, He will wander why he made such a request. The dildo that you've strapped in his mouth and the blindfold on his eyes and the swimming wax in his ears, these things will add to his "pleasure."
See how it goes.
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reader, DiovanLestat + ♥, writes (29 August 2008):
 If your wondering... No I've never tried this myself. But when certain men make me angry, I use my imagination to decide how I'd get them to admit they're wrong and apologise to me real nice... :D
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reader, DiovanLestat + ♥, writes (29 August 2008):
Lol... Airesgirl is perfectly right.. tie him and then leave him alone and go and do something else... that's how it's done....
When you come back, give him some oral sex, and if he gets excited punish him. Punish him for anything, punish him for talking, punish him for trying to touch you, punish him if he moves...... Get some ice, and put it on his dick, tie a blindfold around his head, so he can't see what you might do next. Then go and paint your nails in another room...
YOU MUST HAVE A SAFE WORD. YOU NEED A WORD WHEN TO KNOW IF HE IS UNHAPPY... it dosen't matter what.. "cabbage, video, pencil"... you need a word just in case something goes wrong...
He must call you mistress, queen, godess, and his name is slave, little boy, or both of you can make one up for each other. This is to add to the fantasy, and make sure that you mark a line between this type of sex, and your normal type of loving when your being boyfriend and girlfriend...
Good luck, be safe and have fun... You don't be nervous. If your nervous, punish him with oral sex and stop before he comes. Get a feather and use it lightly, smack his bottom, or smack his arms and legs. If you feel nervous then punish him, because, well just because you can... lol
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reader, AriesGirl  +, writes (29 August 2008):
However you tie him up, tie him SECURELY. Then give him HALF of a b*** j**. Then go out in the kitchen...have dessert..maybe a cigarette. Relax and ignore him.
Leave him alone for a few minutes. Then come back and make sure he's VERY respectful before you finish what you started.
If he's rude, punish him.
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reader, chachacha +, writes (8 March 2007):
What an insensitive man - fancy teling someone that you want them to tie you up, then saying last time it was done it was rubbish!
Why doesn't he say in what way it was rubbish, rather than let your mind run away with you and bring forward all kinds of worries?
Why doesn't he say what would make it not rubbish, and give you a few hints - are you supposed to guess the details?
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reader, AskEve + ♥, writes (8 March 2007):
 It's the CONTROL that turns him on here. He wants YOU to take charge and dominate him and tying him up is all part of that. So do it, tie him up, wear an alluring outfit. Improvise, wear a basque or some sexy black lingerie and wear some black boots too! LOOK the part! Tie him up, spank him and tell him YOU are in charge now... the rest is up to your imagination but he'll love it!
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (8 March 2007):
 First of all use something soft to tie him up. You don't want him to have embarassing marks the next day. Maybe you could try ties or something? Always agree on a safety word so that if he's not comfortabele you have a way of knowing to let him go, since begging to be let go insincerely might be part of the thrill for him here. Also think about ways you can drive him crazy with desire when he's tied up like not quite touching him where he wants to be touched, a slow and sexy striptease etc...
CD
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