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What is the right age to start having sex?

Q.   What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ...

A.   26 October 2007: i personally think you shoult have it until at least 16 as when you are older if you do it young you will regret it you should just wait until you have the perfect boy one you no you like a lot you should do it when ever your comfy just be careful ... (read in full...)

I met a girl and she was amazing. I have a boyfriend and don't want to break up with him, but wish to continue seeing the girl.

Q.   I have the most perfectest boyfriend ever. We are really happy together and want to bring a child in to this world. Recently I went out with old friends and I met a girl, We had a lot in things in common, She wasnt gay niether was I. We kissed then ...

A.   26 October 2007: first of all how could you do such a thing to your boyfriend that was a stupid thing to do wasnt it i think you should first of all tell him straight about your little cheating nights and be honest with him you cant go around cheating on people so ... (read in full...)

How do I avoid losing my friend?

Q.   okay well i have a little problem atm. Im 17 and theres this girl 15 lets call her lucy, who i have known all my life. we have always been so close, and she comes to me when she has a problem and she can also keep me smiling even when im down. and ...

A.   26 October 2007: dont let lucy get to you if you have a wonderfull relationship with this other girl then stay with her love is riht infront of you just focus on your girlfriend and have a happy time with her youve allready had your time with lucy now its this lucky ... (read in full...)

Is this a mid-life crisis?

Q.   i am very attracted to a young lady working in my office as an intern.i call her to my office on any excuse i can think of. We do have long conversations about any topic that comes up.We do enjoy talking to each other i believe. My problem is how to ...

A.   26 October 2007: are you not happy with your marridge? i think that you should get over this woman at work as she might not be interested in you but even if she is do you want to hurt your wifes feelings is it worth breaking a prommis breakin vows and brea... (read in full...)

I have an abusive brother. Why doesn't my mum listen to me and do something about it?

Q.   Well, I know this is probably wrong to say, but I hate my brother...I mean REALLY hate; I can't stand to be around him. He's physically abused me 3/4 times 2 when I was alone with him, he mostly strangles me and chucks things at me with force, h...

A.   26 October 2007: im sorry to hear what you are going through have you spoke to your dad about this? what you are going through is verbal and phisical abuse. have you told someone in school about this as i think you need to talk to someone about it weather its a ... (read in full...)

He wants me but I don't want him.

Q.   to cut a long story short basically i went out with a guy during our summer holidays [around july/august time] and we split up due to non commitement from him. but now it seems he wants to be back in my life. my question is what to do as i am no...

A.   26 October 2007: its easiest to just tell him out straight that you only like him as a friend and that you are seeing someone at the moment tell him what he did wrong in your past relationship.but only talk to him when hes on his own and not with your or his mates ... (read in full...)

Am I overweight, too skinny or just right?

Q.   Look, Im 14 and Im 5ft1/61 inches/155cm and weigh 101 pounds/7 and a half stone. Am I overweight, too skinny, or just right? be honest please....

A.   25 October 2007: you are not over weight if your over ewight and im only 4ft 50 and i weight the same then what am i? you just think you are because of all the skinny celebs if anything i would say you are to skinny you should be happy the way you are and not worr... (read in full...)

Is it too early to kiss?

Q.   I have a new bf we have been together for 20 day we have hugged it is to early to kiss? (we r both 13 and in 8th grade)?...

A.   25 October 2007: if you are comfortable then yes kiss him just make sure you tell your mum afterwards otherwise you might forget it even if your not speaking still tell her but if you think its the right time then go for it just make sure its some where nice ... (read in full...)

Who is in the wrong here?

Q.   I recently went to a party and got really drunk, I had a few people stay over and ended up sleeping with a boy from my school. The only problem is that he has a girlfriend in the year below. I really dont know what to do. Am i in the wrong,is he in ...

A.   25 October 2007: well to be honest i would have to say equal as you both have to take the responsability to tell the truth to his girlfriend if i was his girlfriend i would truly want to know about this as i dont want to go out with a boy who would do such a thing ... (read in full...)

I don't like situps, how can I tone up?

Q.   wat can i do? I really want a firm stomach, ive tried doin situps, but im shit at them? How do i do them? How many shuld i do a day? Is there any other way to tone ur belly? ...

A.   25 October 2007: i wouldnt need to be to concered about sit ups if i was you as i use to do but i then started to get back pain and my gp told me to stop. if you would like to tone up you should try to do this lie flat on your back and your arms beside you, you then ... (read in full...)

When I date friends and it doesn't work out, I lose them as friends! It makes me wonder, why bother in the first place.

Q.   I thank anyone who responds to my question. My question is why is that you can have someone of the opposite sex as a wonderful friend and after you get involved with them and it does not work out...you lose a friend. I am never able to be friends ...

A.   25 October 2007: ive been through exactly the same thing as you ive been out with one of my friends but then it didnt work out. at first we didnt talk but i just left him to be his own worst enemy all you have to do is let him come crawling back to youdont speak to ... (read in full...)

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