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writes:so the other night I was chatting with this guy. we've had a sort of weird past. I thought he didn't care for me and was almost like a jerk. we literally stayed up all night for like 5 hrs talking about nothing and yet everything. he asked me questions about my life, like if I had a bf, we laughed. I actually thought we were making progress and were going to be friends. Well it turns out he told all his friends and also posted bits of our conversation for them to see. That's right, he actually screen capped parts of our conversation. I was open and honest with him last nite and at the end I said do you think I'm a crazy girl? He said, but when he was around his friends today he told them he thought I was crazy. When asked does she like you, he was like she wants something I can't give. Why would he do this? How am I going to deal with this or face ppl again? I'm so embarrassed. Someone told me none of his friends stood up for me and just all kind of laughed. He said he did feel bad for me but he thinks I did something to him in the past. Maybe this is his way of trying to get back, I'm not sure :( Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 November 2012):
 hard to hear this but JUST ignore it.
it will pass....
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reader, abcdef123456  +, writes (27 November 2012):
He is a jerk and you are better off without him.
It is going to be difficult for a while but the best way to deal with the situation is to ignore it with complete dignity. This will make you appear to be completely in control and a better person than him.
Do not resort to throwing insults/ gossiping about him as you will look pathetic and low. Learn from this mistake and be much more careful about who you trust with embarrassing information (especially over social networking as it is easily saved and duplicated!)
Stay strong. Best of luck!
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